Hey so I'm 20 won't be 21 until fall and the guy I'm interested in is 24 already in his career. Also he loves going to bars and beer in general. Do you think he's not going to persue anything serious with me since I'm still in school and can't go to bars and drink, since he goes out so much..
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The age isn't the issue here as much as where you are in your lives. If you were 24 and he was 27/28 it would be no big deal. You would both be in careers and more on the same page. It doesn't seem like that many years, but you will see a huge difference in yourself from 20-24. That being said, he may want someone who can go to bars with him, but if he really likes you he will not let that keep him from dating you. And then consider his age, he may be more untested in being single than perusing something serious with anyone right now.