Hey, so I met this guy online a little over a month ago. We've been on about 5-6 dates. So pretty much hanging out at least once a week. I've met some of his friends and he's met some of my friends and we've fooled around a little. Just to give some back story. I really like him and I think he likes me but I think we're both a little reserved when it comes to putting our feelings out there. I'm going to be hanging out with him again in a couple days and I just want to know if I should ask him (causally) the typical what are we question. I'm not looking for commitment right away, I just wantt to see where I stand.
Also he deleted his online profile but hasn't mentioned anything to me about it. So I'm assuming he isn't talking to other girls...
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Well if you aren't looking for commitment right away then I don't think you need to necessarily worry about it right now. Its still fairly early like you said. And if you aren't looking for it right away, then how soon would you be looking for it? Sorry I'm just trying to understand better. If you would be ok with being together officially within the next 2-3 months then you could say something like "are we just friends, or more than that?" somewhere in between those months. If you want to wait a little longer to commit then I would ask around the time you felt more comfortable committing, which is why I asked how soon would you be looking to commit.1
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