So I've been seeing this guy for just over a month, everything is going fantastic. He's professional, has a really good job, a car, treats me really well, is family oriented, really wants kids (he's the one who brought them up?), I'm extremely attracted to him and he's phenomenal in the bedroom..
Last night we were chatting, and he casually mentioned that he takes coke about once a month.
I've never done coke, I've never done anything except a little marijuana (and drinking obviously).. I reeeeaaallly like him, but am wondering if I should leave. I also don't want to ever try to "change" a man again, cause that never works.. plus it's only been a month :(
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this is a tough one as cocaine is very very addictive. there are not a lot of people who can only be recreational users for long periods of time without becoming full-on addicts. that said there are a lot of functioning cocaine addicts out there, but usually at some point cocaine takes place of everything else (the nature of addiction)
I'd be interested in seeing him and being around him when he uses, who he uses with, and for what reason. I'd wonder is it truly ONLY once a month or is he trying to rationalize his drug use by minimizing it.
It's only been a month so maybe you stick around and see where things go for a while longer0