sooooo I need some advice lovely guys and girls. what do I do in this situation:
I'm currently talking to 4 guys who I know are definitely interested in me. but I've only know them all for a very short time (about a week or two) and I haven't gone out with any of them yet. my relationship between them all is a friendship. I am single and so are each of the boys.
so here's the dilemma. they've all recently been talking of hinting that they want a relationship with me! and I don't even know which one I like best yet to decide.. because I don't even know them all that well yet!!!
arhh I don't want to cause any problems or fall into a '2 (or 4) timing category'
I'm not too superficial, I kinda wanna know what their personality is like before I choose. and I also don't want to be unfair to any of them :/ I actually have no idea what to do? HELP PLEASE!
I also don't want to just start dating one of them right now because
1) I don't know how to choose
2) they are all pretty equal/ similar so far
ahh I am drowning in this situation! what should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
1st question you should as yourself, what are you looking for , is it sex? is it going out and having fun? is for something serious?
once decision is made start weighing the pros and cons, although talking to 4 guys at a very one time is very veery wrong. you should be smart enough to understand what that means.