I'm very protective of my heart, always been. When I fall, it's usually rarely and hard. I can't seem to get excited about love and I can't seem to like women I meet, and getting emotionally connected to them. I don't want to get hurt (like everyone obviously), but it's not like I'm actively doing anything to protect myself. Any ideas? I don't just want sex for you guys who's answer is that.
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What you're doing is probably best. You don't need to be excited about love until you are naturally excited, if that's not the case you're just not ready.
Being protective of your heart is a wise choice, women are very careless with men's feelings and don't have much sympathy for us because society says we're not supposed to have them anyway.0