I don't know if its common to hear from most men my age but I have quickly became tired of the crowds in the small city I live in which borders a college town. I have began going to bars with an older crowd and my idea of a night out is a couple good craft beers or properly made mixed drinks (good pour counts and dinner with my girlfriend. I'm still in college and I almost feel like a loser cause I just can't get the motivation to hit the party scene on weekends like I did just 6 months ago?
Probably both - The final nail in the coffin is remember the have a beer and kick through this tiredness moment becomes I just want my bed - Over time that moment becomes less and less drunk with earlier bedtimes.
You're boring by the definition of college kids that haven't partied enough yet.
I didn't do much partying myself, I think I went out on drinking nights and such only 10 times my whole life and honestly, it's not all that great. Stuck in dark hot rooms with loud crappy music and dozens of sweaty strangers just doesn't do it for me.
Your idea of a night out sounds far more appealing.
Also, house parties are way better. You can control the type and volume of music, you can play games and do silly stuff that's not possible in clubs and generally most people know each other, so it's much safer.
I've had house parties at my place and those are the best nights. We drink, we play Cards Against Humanity or UNO and have a blast socialising, then everyone gets a blanket if they wanna pass out. My guests are also awesome in the sense that they clean up all the rubbish in the morning and even wash all the pint and shot glasses. 😛