Does it make me shallow if I want to first have sex then get to know each other?
Most girls want the other way round, and they are not called shallow, I want it this way, how am I shallow for that?
Updates: Most Helpful Girl
Ehh, as long as she's cool with it then it doesn't matter. If she's not, then walk away and find someone who is. I don't know if it's exactly shallowness in this situation.
Most Helpful Guy
no, but I don't think you know how it works.
What Girls Said 3
Because sex is an act filled with vulnerability and risks, and how people do it casually is beyond me (but hey, whatever works for them I guess). I would only ever do it with someone I loved and trusted completely.
If you don't know her, how do you know you can trust her enough to want to sleep with her?
What Guys Said 1
Shallow? What are you, a pond?
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