Drinking, almost always -- bar-hopping mostly with friends (guys and girls) and a bit of karaoke, sometimes darts, pool. I used to do night clubs a lot but prefer a bit more quiet lately, though sometimes I'm in the mood to go really wild and dance like an idiot.
I watch tv or a movie. enjoy a long lingering bath. chat with friends. and then I fool around, either with my SO or on my own depending if she is asleep then I will jerk myself off, otherwise we play and screw.
I like being in bed and watching movies on my laptop. I just find the comfort of being in bed and watching something is how I'd like to spend my nights. I also do some light reading if I'm interested in a novel and listen to music and be on GaG