What would you do if you caught your girlfriend/boyfriend going through your phone?
Last night I was woken to my G/F holding my phone and asking me who this certain person was. It is a friend of mine that I've known for years and... Show More
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I don't know if this is the case, but maybe you've been giving her the feeling that you're interested in other girls? I'm not saying it's your fault she did that, maybe she just is sort of mistrusting by nature. But I've only thought of going through one BF's phone before and it's because he acted kind of shady.. the phone was always on silent and always hidden in his jeans pocket. I got a weird vibe, and sure enough, he was messing around.
If I were you, I'd just reassure her that you love her and that the other girl is just a friend. Tell her she's welcome to look, but only if you're welcome to see her phone, too. If she still acts paranoid and sneaks through your stuff, then that's just her being insecure.
What Girls Said 4
I'll never have that problem because I have a password on my phone lol I highly recommend it
As long as there wasn't anything inappopriate being said between you and your friend then Id say she is overreacting! Unlike me, I went through my fiances phone and found naked pictures from an old f*** buddy that he said was trying to get back with him but he told her no. Weird, if that were so then why did he SAVE the pictures she sent him! Damn liar! I wish I had just found some regular texts between him and a friend like your girl did. She should be happy she can trust you, not mad!
Just simply explain to her that you have nothing to hide & you and your friend are just good friends. She just probably flipped out because when you told her that you talk to often, she probably thought maybe every now and than. It's understandable to a point. Most girls don't want to know or even think about their boyfriends talking to a girl, even if it's a friend... But those would be the jealous/insecure type.
What Guys Said 3
Well, if she woke me up for that I'd probably tell her to shut up and go to bed.
Sounds like she's worried about other women, if you don't like being questioned all the time this could be a problem. Just tell here that she's the only one and all that crap, and if she continues with the snooping then you need to consider whether or not this relationship is going to last.
Get out because no matter how many times she says she trust you, she doesn't. That is blatant disrespect and to sneak and snap without giving you a chance to give her the truth. Yeah, she's sorry today but what about two months when you wave to a person and she flips the hell out. You're a grown ass man and you know it's going to get bad. You got to ask yourself, what else has she done. It's going to get ugly.
well first of I have never been in a situation like this, so don't take my words heavily.
i would suggest trying to take the situation down a notch, might take some time just make sure that it isn't on the verge of a boxing match the entire time.
once the situation does not have as high of tension ask for her forgiveness(yeah that's right I said for you to ask for her to forgive you :D) tell her your sorry you had not told her about this person.
explain to her that the girl on your phone, is just a friend make sure you tell her this calmly. leave no secrets about this girl from her, if you do it may hurt you later on some how women have a magic way of that happening.
at all cost do not mention anything about her period being the cause for the sudden outburst (I learned that was a bad idea)
mind you this may take a couple of days so don't expect it all to be OK that same day.
final step is to get back that trust you lost this will be difficult.
thats what I think you should do :D