Why is my boyfriend distant?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and all of a sudden he is distant. He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore and he is not affectionate anymore. I give him a kiss, hug, or try to hold his hand while watching a movie and he just sits there. Does this mean he no longer wants to be with me ?
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What Guys Said 3
What do you mean by "all of the sudden"?
If he's distant _all the time_ that might mean he's worried about something, but it doesn't have to be a worry about your relationship.
When they're worried, guys tend to withdraw into themselves. He could be stressed about work or thinking about bills to pay.
Try being affectionate with him. See how he responds.
What Girls Said 3
unless there is something bothering him, its most likely that he's gotten to the point in the relationship where he feels comfortable and doesn't feel that its important to show effection and stuff because its like he already has you so he doesn't have to try as hard anymore. I don't know why some guys are like this. my boyfriend used to be affectionate and text me all the time, now, after 2 years. he never texts and just assumes I know that he cares about me stuff.