How is the best way to ask a girl that already is your best friend out?
i have been hanging out with her for four years and I've finally worked up the courage to ask her out today. we are going to a movie and I figure... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING!
You invested 4 years into a friendship. Are you willing to throw it all away? If she doesn't like you, the friendship (as it is now) is over. If you two hook up but it doesn't work out, the friendship is over. At best, you might gain a girlfriend, but is it worth the loss of a long-time friend? You might have a different type of relationship that is also desirable, but the friendship will be over. Sex will change things, if it even gets that far. Anyways, just give it some serious thought.
What Girls Said 3
Make sure you express all of your feelings to her. Girls love to hear why you like them so much it'll just make her heart flutter.
tell her how you feel, ask her if she feels the same way, and go out! good luck!
If you are going to a movie then how are you going to ask her out, I mean you guys are out... What does ASK OUT mean?
What Guys Said 3
I am going through the same situation granted I haven't been friends with the girl as long. In my case I decided to tell her I liked her and tried to just be honest about how I felt. It has blown up in my face. Yet I would do it again, I would rather take a chance and fail the be a coward. Also in regards to what easyec says, I would say that yes there is a lot to lose but there is so much more to gain than just a girlfriend.
all you gotta do is say "i like you" no games, no beating around the bush, nothing.. that's all it takes, if she likes you back then there ya go
personally though, 4 years of a friendship, that doesn't seem wise to me