i have been hanging out with her for four years and I've finally worked up the courage to ask her out today. we are going to a movie and I figure... Show More
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THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING!
You invested 4 years into a friendship. Are you willing to throw it all away? If she doesn't like you, the friendship (as it is now) is over. If you two hook up but it doesn't work out, the friendship is over. At best, you might gain a girlfriend, but is it worth the loss of a long-time friend? You might have a different type of relationship that is also desirable, but the friendship will be over. Sex will change things, if it even gets that far. Anyways, just give it some serious thought.