My guess is that there are a sizable amount of unresolved disputes with you over time.
it sounds like he could use some self-control and respect for you. are there other stesses involved, like children? no time to talk before you go to work?
Why does my husband always fly off the handle?
i work nights and spend very little time with my husband, but when I call to converse with him he flys off the handle and starts snapping at me. why?