Should you hook back up with the father of your child?

My baby daddy left me for another woman and claims that they never had sex. We hooked up three times after breaking up. Should I feel guilty?

I can't help but feel confused because he even bought me a Valentine's Day gift.

Should I just cut all contact down to the baby needs diapers?


Most Helpful Guy

  • I think a good general rule is -- if it's not yours then don't sleep with it. He obviously left you for someone else, so it doesn't sound like he's yours anymore. Move on and stop sleeping with him. Being the father doesn't give him the automatic right to have sex with you. HE should continue to be a father, and YOU should stop letting him be player.


What Guys Said 2

  • If you don't love him then don't be with him is my advice.


What Girls Said 1

  • He is the Father of your child. You will never be able to cut all contact with him. But, sleeping g with him if you do not love him is stupid. So, he left you for another girl but, did not sleep with her? So, what did they do together? Bake cookies? Come on, he slept with her and you want him back. You share a special bond. You love this guy and sleeping with him will not make him get back with you. Now, if you want to get back together then, work on a healthy relationship with him for you and your baby. He isn't just a sperm donor.