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My boyfriend doesn't offer any kind of help to me and expects me to do everything alone

So me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. He's sweet and has been there for me through all my trials. But when it comes to money he... Show More

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  • Honey, he is abusing you. Not mentally or physically but taking advantage of you! WAKE UP! Honestly, he is a good-for-nothing. He is flaunting all of his new clothes in front of you while he claims to be poor? What do you see in this guy? Do you see a future of paying for everything all the while he buys new things? If you accept this lifestyle then more power to you but it doesn't look so good.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Sounds like he's using you babe, ditch him he's no use to you. Unfortunately the real world evolves around money, if he has none like he says, well no amount of love is going to keep you two together. If he's like this now imagine marrying him and have him live of you for years to come? What do you think of that? Trust me ditch him.

  • So he's getting you to pay for all his dates and getting to bang you...and you've put up with it for 2 years. He's pretty dang smart.

    • Indeed

    • We haven't done that. I'm waiting for marriage for sexual intercourse.

    • You've done something with him.

What Girls Said 3

  • Sounds like it is time to move on. You started dating 2 years ago, obviously pretty young. I did the same thing with my ex, but I did a lot of growing and he stayed the same. It seems like he might not give you the attention you need and deserve, not just monetarily, either. You have probably just grown up a lot and he is just the same as when it started out. May be time to move on.

  • Sounds to me like you need a new boyfriend. not trying to be mean, but if he doesn't buy you anything or takes you out you can imagine your future with him.

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