Why can't I make friends at church ?
I have been attending a church for about 5 years now. My mother found the church for my brothers and I because at the time we were beginning to...
Most Helpful Guy
Alright, so first of all. You don't go to Church because it's a social event and the people are friendly and the service is nice and the music is good. While they might all be present they are the wrong reasons to be going. You go to Church because you believe in the dogma. Church groups are hit and miss much like everything else in life. You're not always going to get the best small group or the young adults group might be separated into cliques. Keep looking and if you can't find anything maybe you should look for an external group like a lay ministry or bible study group. It's easy to get distracted by the people and start going because so and so is cool or you have a crush on this cute guy in it but you've got to remember the real reason you're involved.
What Guys Said 7
I would think that the way to make friends at church is the same way one would use to make friends anywhere else.
Visit a kingdom hall of Jehovah's Witnesses it's a family there unlike churches which claim to be Christian yet they support wars, homosexuality, the false doctrine of the trinity, and the belief that all good people go to heaven and bad ones go to hell. You'll see real brotherly/sisterly love from people of all races. Most importantly you'll learn the truth through the Bible and how you can earn everlasting life. Visit jw.org if you would like this opportunity.
It doesn't matter what nationality is the majority in your church. You're going to church because you want to live a very spiritual life.
maybe they are colsing themselves up cause you aren't Latina.
I think you have given these people more than enough opportunity to be friendly. I would give up, find somewhere where you are wanted. It doesn't sound lke a "good church otherwise."
What's your personality like?
What Girls Said 1
becasue they ar eLatino they migh tnot fele comfortable with a nonLatina. so you need to stop forgin yourslef into them and try to gain their trust first. don't appear as if you are only looking for friends, go to church and pay attention to the mass.
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