A longterm guy friend of mine (friends for 9+ years) and a girl friend (about 4 years) of mine dated for about a year. She recently broke up with him as she developed feeling for someone else who she is now dating. He was pretty distraught and for about a month or so after I helped him through it all. Basically just hanging out and distracting him and keeping his mind off her. (as he had done for me several times before when I was heartbroken). He has been pretty great not putting me in the middle of things ie: not asking questions about her or her new boyfriend, not bitching about her etc. as he knows we are friends and doesn't want to put me in the middle. Him and I have been getting pretty close lately, hanging out a lot, texting daily, flirting etc. There has always been someone between us but until now we have never been single at the same time so have never pursued anything. There's just always been tension between us really. Even now you can tell we both are trying hard to... Show More
Does his ex want him back?
What Guys Said
This is very common and another reason people divorce for the wrong reasons, they should just stay together I mean stay married no matter what
What Girls Said
Trying to hook up with your friends ex is a sin. Honestly, he just got dumped which makes you a rebound. You have been friends for nine years and if nothing has happened there's a reason why. He never put you first. Sorry if this isn't what you want to hear...and yes your friend still has feelings for him.