Straight hair is not fake. You're not applying any coloring, chemicals, or anything like that to make it straight. Eyeliner, lipstick, nail polish, hair extensions, etc. are not naturally part of your body. They are external additions.
I don't think they know what natural means. I really don't. You could probably put a picture of two different girls next to one another- one with makeup and one without, and if the makeup was subtle enough they wouldn't tell the difference. And more often than not, I doubt they even know if the girl has naturally curly hair or not too lol
i agreed straightening hair is very damaging i have tried not to do it
Because they're a little hypocritical. They've most likely never seen a 100% natural woman either, so they claim to like it even though they have no idea what's fake and what's real. And no, guys probably have no clue about how damaging straightening your hair can be either. Basically they're clueless when it comes to female beauty. They just like to pretend that they know what they're talking about.
Does it really matter what they think? Be how ever makes you feel good about yourself.
I don't know, I wear makeup, do my hair, get it highlighted, paint my nails and wear bronzer because I am white as a ghost, and I have NEVER had a problem with men. They always say they want a "natural" girl, and I am sure that is true, but I feel like I am not 100% natural and I still get plenty of compliments/asked out.
I think as long as you don't look like a clown, they don't really care. I am never going to change doing what I do because it is fun for me, and I dont really care if guys tell me to stop lol.