some people just have a presence that you notice right away even if there not dressed up well... And there's just that something about them that you're drawn to and want to be like perhaps.
How do you get a presence?
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When I walk into a meeting with Air Force generals, or keen research and developers, or prominent scientists they often come over to shake my hand afterwards. Usually they do this to people they are trying to impress and I have to tell them I an not an authority figure or management. But It is because I am told I have that I have a certain "presence" when I walk into a room.
People know when I am there and I am recognized. The bad part is that people are intimidated to talk to me. Generally I have to start everything, if I don't, it doesn't magically happen at all. I'm not sure why this is because I'm friendly and nice but oh well.
I think you can wake up and have it. I think the whole "be confident" line is extremely overrated. It is like a deck of cards, "be confident" is like playing your one hand. But if you're cool, and you have the right attitude throughout the game, is the key to winning the game as oppose to the hand. Your attitude is far more important. With the right attitude, it will encompass and overtake confidence.0
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