Do you still look at other girls? Say you've been with your girlfriend for a few years now. If you see a pretty girl or someone you might like being with would you still approach the girl or becoming friends with her?
Basically if you're not single..do you still look?
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Absolutely. And women do too. That programming doesn't terminate when you are in a relationship. But the context of your assessment is different. Although at some primal level we all look at the opposite sex posing the mental question "would I or wouldn't I?," the thought doesn't progress past that when we are in love with another or at least happily coupled.
But we still look, rate, and (for guys at least) engage in a nanosecond blip of anonymous fantasy. It's harmless and healthy, because our attraction to others helps define who we are.0