I posted a question here a couple of days ago about my sexless marriage.I`m on the verge of giving up and maybe just ask for a divorce.Buuut, I still want to try.Mybe i need to change my looks.I just wear jeans and shirt at home. Most of the times he would see me in pajamas (morning and bedtime when he gets home from work).I`m very simple and plain, but i have a very good hygeine.I shower/toothbrush twice a day (morning and bedtime) I mean, i believe i`m not disgusting at all.We have a baby and it`s really hard to find time for manicure, make up etc.But i guess i should try to improve my looks this time.Guys, please give me an idea how you expect your wife to look like when you come home from work.Ladies, any fashion tips? I am petite 5'2", i have black hair and brown skin if that helps.Thanks <3
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I know how having a baby can really make the sexual connect between a couple kind of snap. In our case, my partner lost all her interest in sex, and it was me who had to struggle to get it back on the rails.
Some things that might help:
* Try watching p*rn together, this can be quite sensual, specially if the slower party get turned on after awhile (as my partner does). If guy-porn turns you off, watch some porn-for-couples or even porn-for-women (which I find verrry sexy) or simply films with a lot of nudity.
* In bed, try new sexual positions. It was doggie-style which changed our relationship. After protesting for years about it ("animal-type sex"), she suddenly found that she enjoys it. We particularly both feel great when we do it on one particular bed. Guess it has to do with the matching heights, etc. Probably because of the many rejections, I went through a phase where I just couldn't climax myself. It was terrible. But doggie-style brought back the right sensations and cured this.
* Give him some sex he won't forget in a hurry. Do the work for a change, instead of waiting for him to initiate and "do the work". Why not offer him a sensual massage? Or just go about giving him one without him even knowing. It can be very relaxing for a guy, specially when he knows he's going to get a happy ending and a pleasurable climax without having to work for it. Use some nice natural oil (like coconut or olive) and see what he enjoys.0
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