i hate my hair, it can be frizzy and tangled sometimes and I have to tie it up in a ponytail or messy bun when I don't have time to straigten or blowdry...does that take away the attraction?
one time I actually had time to straighten and smoothen out my hair, and left it down was soft and silky, and a huge number of guys I work with complimented me and said to keep it that way always...im thankful for the advice..but what if I like my hair up sometimes? =/ will men always be turned of by hair that isn't naturally beautiful smooth and silky?
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I've been in the same situation. All the guys love ya when your hair is straight and not frizzy. I constantly apologize for the way my hair looks to my boyfriend, but he says he doesn't care and that I shouldn't worry about it because it doesn't matter to him.
If a guy really cares about you, he won't mind your hair being frizzy or anything like that. Keep it clean though, obviously. As for public appearance, I worry more about what other girls will think about my hair. You know how some girls are today, if its not perfect they hate it. It's whatever. If I could change my hair being frizzy I would, but I can't and my boyfriend says I'm beautiful no matter what. :)1