NEVER, Never ever post 2 black heels for a GUY to compare...
Most men see such thing as the same, specially if it's the same color.
Exactly the first one looks more classy, but the second one seems more to the attractive side and for hanging out,
For a wedding I would suggest the first one, but unless if don't want to keep it in your closet for your whole life afterwards... Don't buy it, it doesn't look like it would match most of what you seem to prefer.
No, I'm straight. Studied fashion design in my highschool.
Please rate my question if it helped so you can motivate me with helping other people, Thanks and Enjoy your wedding.
Oh my goodness, will you walk on that? Your heels are on the first floor when your toes are in the basement! High heels are not really my thing. But okay, neutral advice: it certainly looks like a quality shoe and it will probably make you look like a class lady. So for a marriage, probably a yes! Consider dancing on bare feet :-)
I say the first pair. A sexier heel in my opinion. The second are nice too. As far as wearing them another time, that is for you to make happen. Just wear them when you want to look and feel beautiful and sexy. Even put them on in the bedroom for your man sometime.
I personally think for a wedding you could do with slightly less of a platform look? I think something a bit more elegant would suit the ocassion better and probably the stuff of outfit you're likely to wear aswell.