I have been wondering this, since I moved back to my home town, things are a bit different from big city life to small time life. I have noticed that on the weekends you have to go to the bars to meet anybody, I try to meet girls at the bar, and I have had some hits, but nothing that I think will ever come of it. I do like to drink, but not get drunk, I am that shy guy, that life of the party after a while and everybody knows me, I am that big brother type, but I can't seem to keep a hold of any girl in my life, I don't know if it's because I am a nice guy, and they are just not use to it or what? But they always leave for that bad boy type (which I am, I just don't treat them like a piece of trash).
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Bad women aren't the only type of women that go to bars. Granted, it's a lot easier to find a great woman if you meet at a venue of a similar interest, I. E. A bicycle club or concert or something. But as far as bars go, hows your body language? Do you convey yourself as a strong interesting guy, or do you come of somewhat needy? How much fun do you have at these bars? Are you sincerely enjoying yourself or are you too concerned with trying to meet a nice girl. If you meet a woman, don't show interest right off the bat unless there's something you sincerely like about her. Do you touch these woman you meet? People in general like being touched, not in a creepy way, but in a casual way. Find little reasons to touch her, but don't be clingy. Be flirty and fun. Remember to have fun, that is key.0