How would you know if a guy was hooked for life? What would a guy do for a girl he was absolutely and positively in love with besides ask for her hand?
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To your question and your comment: Every guy is different. There is no universal sign that he will want to spend his life with you, even asking your hand in marriage. The divorce rate is higher than ever these days, sorry to burst your bubble. You'll just have to trust him. It's sounds like right now you don't have a whole lot of trust in people, because you are already trying to prepare yourself and map out your relationships. Just take them as they come. You're not going to be able to live your life without heartache. That's what you should be preparing for. To your response in the comment, you said "I am a very mature person who is not looking to date until there's a possibility of being together forever with someone.", obviously you still have a lot to learn and a lot to experience. You have to date in order to find what it is you really want in a person that you wish to spend your life with. As for that possibility you're talking about...you won't know sometimes until years down the road, and you're way to young to be worrying about it right now. More than likely guys will come and go for a few years, and you'll learn what you like and what you don't. Relationships are hard and require effort from both parties. I would say that when the guy comes along that you really truly have no 2nd guesses about if he loves you or not, doubts about his faithfulness, and can stand being around him on a daily basis for longer than 3 years...that's the guy you should spend your life with. Go off of how you truly feel and what you want and know you deserve, not the "signs" you're searching for.0