How do I attract all of these bad guys? I'm a generally good girl, and I'm certainly not a slut or anything. I try to be nice to everyone. So how do I get all of these jerks or guys that want to get into my pants after me?
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First of all, most guys will try to get in your pants. If you don't want that, your mission is to learn what games/techniques they try on you to get there. Even if you were to be on your way to nun school, there will always be guys trying to get in your pants.
As to your question of how you attract them---well, you could be giving the wrong impressions. Do you dress to provocatively, or do you joke too much with the guys? A lot of times guys will misinterpret friendliness with the idea that you're interested in them in a sexual way. If all the boys are coming to you trying to get in your pants, then time to go into control mode and maybe is best to tell them, 'by the way, if you're trying to get on my pants, try somebody else cause you won't be getting too far. "
Honestly though, you need to reassess what is it that you're specifically doing when you interact with guys that is leading them to believe you're open for play.3