How would you assume a person's character and personality traits dressed like this? This is my style and people assume I'm confident and secure but I'm a actually a shy girl with lots of insecurities who just loves fashion. Apparently this makes me come off as an arrogant person :( should I change my style?
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Honestly, I would definitely read you as somebody who is dismissive of men who aren't making an effort to look like GQ models, and would expect you to think that people should act like they are told to by such magazines.
Whether you were a coworker or somebody I met while out, you'd not be somebody I make an effort to engage.
In some sense our style really is a reflection of who we are, so while you can try to change your appearance, all you're going to wind up doing is making yourself feel uncomfortable in your own skin. You should do what makes you feel good about yourself.0