I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. He's a very sexual guy and we have fun in bed. I thought he would like it if I did some special stuff for him, but his response has me confused.
He went to Vegas for a week and a half, so I sent him a sexy pic message of me. Nothing too over the top of explicit, just kinda flirty and said I missed him. He responded that he was busy and couldn't talk but missed me too, and never mentioned the pic...
For his b day I got him some presents (nice bottle of whiskey, a new wallet that he asked for) and dressed up in sexy lingerie when we got back to his place after bday dinner. He didn't seem that interested at all, he was just like "Oh nice" and then wanted to get down to it.
I'm starting to feel dumb like I don't know how to turn him on and he thinks I'm silly for trying to be playful like this. Otherwise he is a great boyfriend and tells me I'm sexy and beautiful and he wants me all the time.
Is this weird? What am I doing wrong, or is there something wrong with him?
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Maybe he thinks you are sexy just being youself you know. When people try to be sexy they act differently than they normally do and might look silly you know. I think it's nice in someways he may think your sexy when you tuck your hair behind your ears or when you laugh or sip your soda. Just being yourself is sexy and who could ask for more. I mean if he asked you to dress up or role play or other things you may feel like"Wait a minute doesn't he find just me sexy?" a little bit down the road. I would take it as a complement and just keep on being your sexy self ; )0