I know I sound stupid, but I'm changing my wardrobe. I only get attention from guys when I wear short-ish shorts. So, I'm going to start dressing howing a little more skin. I just want to feel wanted.<\3
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Why do you want to feel wanted? You are depowering yourself by putting your happiness in the hands of people you have no control over, who have no reason to care about you and no reason to have your best interests in mind.
I would think that what you want to feel is to feel loved, or to feel appreciated, or to feel that someone cares about you. That is very different, and you need to go about it differently. Just turning yourself into an object isn't going to make men think about you in personal terms, and long term is going to most likely have the opposite effect to what you are hoping. Just because a guy wants a beer doesn't mean he cares about the beer, and any other beer is just as good if he is thirsty. Be something a guy cares about, not something he simply wants.0