Okay, here it is ...the brass nails of it all. But before I go further, I want to add a quick disclaimer...I know how important a sense of humor, a great personality, and of course just basic chemistry are to a relationship, but this question isn't dealing with those.
I have heard a lot of women complain about how superficial men are, and how we only want one thing. So, here is your chance to voice it out.
When you first see a man, what are the qualities that really help you determine whether you really want him or not.
If the waiter brings you a drink, and he points across the room to the young gentleman that just bought it for you...what determines if you accept it.
If you're in the grocery store, and you see the man picking out the perfect melons...hehe...what makes you determine whether you are going to by a c antelope that day or not?
Come on ladies...do you notice the bulge in our jeans like we notice the bulges in your blouse before you ever even talk to us?
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Well I think looks do matter.50/50 looks and personality you have to have both.
I think Ricky gervais is hilerious,but I wouldn't want to go to bed with himLook initilly attract a person but personality is what seals the deal and keeps them around.
What I would be checking would be his height (im 5.8 and I like my men tall),his eyes,if he smiles it better be cheeky looking,how he is dressed/style,how he carrys himself-if he looks relaxed,self assured but not arrogent,if he looks like he has good hygiene.
Ive never liked pretty-boys or men who are tarty and spend more time in the mirror then I do lol.
Also not obsessed with body image and is cnfident in his own skin-but this is personality,sorry I digress.
My man,the first thing was his height and come-to-bed eyes,and he matched all the things above and has a nice butt to lol.
Men are not so superficial,they are just less subtle.1