I absolutely adore girls with short hair (one pixie cut will get my attention in a room full of people). I've also noticed that a majority of these girls are either introverts or artistically inclined, both of which I am also attracted to.
My question is, do these type of girls have a specific guy that they look for, whether that be personality or body-type? I'm not trying to change to be that guy, but I'm interested in knowing if my personality/looks stand out to them.
Also, to you introverts out there... how do I meet you? I can't seem to find that elusive "shy girl" in public places, and have no way of knowing where to find you, let alone know how to form a friendship/relationship with you...
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I do have short hair, and I am an introvert. That's so weird that you were right, haha
That being said, I have a couple of friends who currently have/have had pixie cuts, and they're far from introverted.
I haven't really noticed that we have a particular type in common... Haven't really thought about it much though!
As for meeting introverts... Well first off, there's a big difference between introverted and shy. I've read books on the subject, and as I said, I myself am an introvert, and I'll tell you, introverts hate small talk. It legitimately makes us uncomfortable. Conversation with some meaning is important. Doesn't have to be deep, personal stuff, but we like to learn something in our conversations. So try to avoid talking about the weather unless you're gonna go into detail :P
Introverts are everywhere. We're usually the ones trying to go unnoticed, simply because we're not interested in having many people around us. This is gonna sound like such a cliche, but I know a lot of introverts who love browsing bookstores. They're quiet, and calm, and you don't have to be social or talk to a ton of people (which is exhausting for an introvert). Strike up conversation about a book they're looking at, or if you're not in a bookstore, about the kind of coffee they're drinking. Pretty much as you would with any other girl. Point is to avoid small talk, like I said. Small talk is just exhausting, haha
That was a mess of information, and I'm on my phone so I haven't read it back, so please excuse any spelling or grammatical errors. I hope it makes sense, and if it doesn't, let me know and I'll be happy to clarify, haha1