Let me start off by saying every girl is different, just like every guy is.
Turn offs for me would be:
-Smoking, that's a deal breaker for me
- Long hair if it's greasy or unbrushed
- Excessive swearing
Turn ons would be:
-Taller than me
-Knows who he is
I mean there are a lot of different factors that go into whether or not you like somebody, and sometimes you can't really help who you like.
It doesn't really matter to me what a guys job is, if he's happy then he's got a good job. I would rather date a guy who worked at a gas station and loved it, than date a guy with a corporate job and big bucks who hated it.
Most girls who are looking for a good boyfriend just want someone who will be there for them. Just be yourself and girls will find you attractive.
I think the one thing that would attract me to a guy would be his confidence. Even if I do not think he is cute or like hihs clothes or hair or teeth or anything. If a guy came up to me and introduced himself I would feel cool with him. But do not get this confused with cockiness! Guys who are cocky are a HUGE turn off to me!
when you first meet someone, lets face it you have to have an oompf about you...and you gotta be a tad cocky and play hard to get, only INITIALLY when you are strangers...yet give eye contact and display a smile to show interest...
then you build on from there, and if you run into her frequently, or have class together, or work in the same place, whatever it is, then you can start by introducing yourself...exchange numbers, get to know each other...
but the hard to get to familiarizing yourself with her transition is what does the job...otherwise you just seem average, too easy, desperate and not worth the chase...
I'm not a girl but I still know what many women like.
Women want a guy that's confident yet not arrogant.
They want someone that can make them feel safe, secure and a guy that's not needy. Trying to please a girl all the time is a sure attraction killer. A mix of cocky and funny is also often good. Be true to yourself and don't get a tatoo, piercing or whatever just because you think some girl will like you better for it. Most women prefer a genuine man...