We talk and flirt throughout the day at work. I've made it pretty clear that I like him by my flirty touches and grabbing his shoulder, etc. He doesn't flinch or move away, I think he likes it. He is always coming over to chat with me. He talks about all kinds of stuff, but I don't know if I'm just a friend. I had my jacket off at my desk, and thought he left for the day. He came over and sat down to chat. The sleeveless top and long necklace highlight my ample chest and even a girl colleague might glance below my eyes just in passing. (not gross or anything) but he stayed FIXED on my eyes as we talked. I was getting cold and reached around to get my jacket and put it on. I saw from the corner of my eye that he kept his glance above my neck. Though I appreciate it as a work colleague, I can't help but think (dude. You're not even Interested in checking out the rack? Come on. You're a dude! ) Look, I'd know if he's gay, he's not. He is a hetero. A very hot, sexy, bit rough, blue collar type that is very attractive to me. Also, while I'm asking. Should I do something to see if he likes me?
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Actually, homosexual men will look as well. The fashion-sensitive ones love picking women apart. Just watch any reality TV show dedicated to fashion or "what not to wear. "
I tried this technique before, where I trained myself to look women in the eyes and not oggle them at all. Not for any malicious reasons or to play games, but I just got tired of the dirty looks when I might occassionally be interested in sneaking a peek. The amusing thing is, women will get just as upset if all you do is look them in the face the whole time while talking to them. Lose/lose situation. I share my story to point out he may have a reason for doing this. Classy as others have suggested, maybe he is deeply religious, or maybe he has secretly oggled you so many times he doesn't need to keep looking? :) If you have a beautiful face, that can actually trump whatever is below the neckline. I've talked to women like that before, I was totally not interested in looking anywhere else.
Good luck, I hope you get to find out where you stand with him. If you end up together he already has shown his respectful side. That's always a good thing.1