that is hard, because there are days when I'm not attracted to my boyfriend at all, and days were I am very of course, but It doesn't really make me like him less... although, and I hate to say this, but sometimes when I don't find him to be looking so great I don't want to be as cutesy with him and hold his hand and all, if you get what I'm saying.
But I still really like him no matter what, and I overall love his personality.
Both are important, looks are your first impression, they are what draws you to that person, but personality is what makes them stay.
It depends on the girl but Personality because when I didn't think my boyfriend was cute either I hung out with him more and more and his personality sucked me in. . ..but once that person likes you for who you are- their looks will become something you will accept or find attractive because you will see things differently .
personality is more important HOWEVERRR I have to be attracted to him. I met this one guy that I wasn't really attracted to but he had a great personality. we were together for like 2 months but things ended because ultimately I didn't have that much of a connection with him since I was not attracted to him. for a relationship to be successful (in my eyes) you have to have a connection emotionally AND physically. and that physical connection just wasn't there. so both really do matter.
Personality, ( but you got to have some attraction to him) I don't go for looks.
They have to have both, no girl wants to date a guy they think is physically ugly, but they don't want hot jerks either.Personality is more important.
Looks CAN be more important initially...but charm is so much better than looks. Though charm doesn't last either. Ultimately personality is most important, but sometimes if a person is great, but doesn't really have good looks or charm, my view can be kinda clouded =P Good question