How can I feel more confident? I like the attention I get when I wear revealing clothing. I know its really bad, and its not the good kind of attention but it makes me feel better about myself. I am really insecure and when guys check me out I feel pretty. any pointers on how to feel good by not dressing slutty?
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First, don't feel horrible,... just about every person (no, actually every person) in the world is insecure (about some things, or a lot of things). Some are just better at hiding it.
Some of this you will probably grow out of, some not.
Obviously this bothers you about yourself (the way you dress), so the best advice is, fake it till you make it. Fake being confident in 'regular' cloths until you feel more confident. Pay attention to the looks you still get when you aren't showing off your body.
If that doesn't help, and this still really bothers you, then try talking to someone, even maybe a professional that might help give you insite as to why you feel / act this way. Afterall, even though you will never get over every single insecurity you have, you do want to be confident enough to take on each day.