I wear very heavy black makeup. (note my pictures)
I was recently talking with a old friend of mine whom is several years older than me. He says to me that my makeup could be scaring off guys.
I honestly don't really understand what he meant by that.
I doubt it's the cliche "gothic" thing because I do not fit into that stereotype really. And I am not a fan of stereotypes at all. I believe that they should stay in high school.
Anyways, explain how my heavy look could be scaring away guys.
Please and thank you.
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Well, if you're over 18 you look like an immature teen. If that's the look you're going for than whatever. But you need to look like an adult if want a specific kind of guy in you age bracket. That look tells me a few things whether it's true or not. List: highly emotional, drug addict, unemployed, punk kid. Unfair, so what, that's what you're putting out. Perception is reality. It happens everywhere. So please don't be so surprised by certain reactions if you act or dress a certain way. Those things actually matter in a civilized society where appearances matter.11