Guys, how fit do you like her to be? I mean do we have to spend hour after hour toning ever muscle in our body to think were dateable. I'm not saying I'm fat or anything(i personally believe I have a fit body) but what do you guys think? Do we need to be stick thin?
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No you don't need to be stick thin, in fact for some people that's a turn off. Basically focus on a healthy weight, which I think gets calculated by your height and age - then it tells you what your weight should be at a healthy level.
Honestly weight is an important thing for me, I stay fit and healthy and I want to go out with a girl who is also fit and healthy. She doesn't have to be supermodel thin, just not fat.
If you are working out the areas you should focus on are your legs (skinny, tanned, exposed legs drive guys nuts), butt and belly. The worst is if a girl has a belly sticking out of her shirt, major turn off. Aside from that your probably already fine as far as weight goes. I wouldn't worry about it.
Honestly all these girls work on their appearance but guys care a lot about your personality. Girls seem to think guys only care about their bodies, this just not true.There's no doubt that guys pay attention to how you look, but if a guy is going to go out with you solely based off of your appearance he's probably only going out with you because he wants sex.
There is always going to be a prettier girl around the corner, but is she also going to be funny, intelligent, confident and nice? Not likely. So its good to pay attention to your appearance, but realize that there are other important things as well.2