I'm 24 but people keeping telling me they thought I was 19. I want to date guys older than me like around 25-27 but they talk to me like I'm a little girl. And I keep attracting young guys/boys. It sucks... what do I do.
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Maybe it's not just the way you look but the way you act? It has to be. The way I see it, it's definitely a win-win situation for you. We don't wanna date 18 year olds because they're immature, just out of HS with little experience on life but do we find them physically attractive? ofc! Assuming you have the maturity of a 24 year old and you have the looks of a 19 year old, you are in a 100% win-win situation!
Look at this data from OKcupid, basically guys think girls of age 20~ look the best to them:
Personal story of mine, I was attracted to a girl a while ago but she looked younger than girls of my age. I kept thinking "God I hope she's not like 18 or some shit, she better be 21 atleast". I asked her and found out she was 24! I was so shocked and I said 'wow really, I thought you were straight outta high school!." I think she took it the wrong way, she didn't say anything back. What I meant was that she aged really well and I liked that!0