I know it sounds like a dumb question but I hardly ever get approached by guys and I am always told by my male friends that I don't get approached because I look unattainable or intimidating because of how I look...
So guys, if you saw two girls...one gorgeous and not gorgeous per se but still cute...who would you approach?
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Well, without really being able to answer your quesetion because it's a little bit too black and white, I will say that your guy friends are not lying. Dressing up and being hot can bring a sort of sexual power but that can work against you. It sounds counter-intuitive because being powerful should get people to want you, and it does, but it also scares away people because they're afraid you'll find them "weak" (lacking in the sexual power that you've got).
I do know that when I ask out gorgeous girls, I find that they get approached awkwardly a lot but they don't get asked out on a real level and really, they're glad I asked them out. You don't have to live with beauty working againt you, though. Just expect people to be a bit intimidated and take responsibility for making the first move and being friendly. You'll get approached a lot more than ANY girl that way. ;)3