Well I know this guy that tells me amazing things and he's only my friend but he's not that good looking but the way he treats me is just amazing but I know that if I let something happen between us he would be an excellent boyfriend and I don't care about his looks. But I'm not sure if I really want to have a boyfriend right now.
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The first thing you must decide is if you want a boyfriend. If yes, then go for this amazing man. If not, sit tight until you want to. Nothing is more damaging to a woman than being in a relationship you did not want to be in regardless of how good or bad that man is.
In all my years(38 of them), I seriously believe that women are attracted more to handsome men than average men with personality. I man must be handsome first to gain that first impression and attraction to even have a chance. If he does gain such interest, that is when personality counts. There are millions of men like myself who have excellent personality but cannot gain a woman's interest due to the simple fact that MOST women do not find average men attractive enough. Paying for it does not count.
Disagree? Look at my own reality rating. 5's at best. Need any more proof?
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