Seems like you have to try way to hard just to keep the focus on you.
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you know I had a problem with my guy always checking out girls when we were walking and holding hands and it got me upset every time he did it. So I told him that it bothered me and he shouldnt have to look at any other girl because I'm right here, I should be good enought for him to not have to check out anyother girl. And he respects it now and doesn't do it. I'm very insecure about that and I don't know why so I see exactly where your coming from. But... I've learned the difference between checking out a girl and looking at a girl. Yes it is human nature for anyone to see someone else attractive but its how far you take that. If he's turning his head to look at her,or watching her walking or throwing double glances at her that's wrong. If a cute girl catches his eye but looks away obviously there is nothing wrong with that. It aways made me insecure when he would do that too but I was just way to crazy and possessive at the time lol. I feel they don't have to they just do it out of habit but once you let them know of what there doing, theyll end up being more mindful of the situation and what they are looking at when a girl walks by0