So I was at my friends party at the weekend and we got pretty drunk. I got speaking to this girl a few times during the night and we ended up making out and going to 3rd base.
At this point we were both pretty drunk but I'm not sure what I should do as a next step. A friend of hers gave me the girls number. I am pretty interested in seeing her again but I have no idea whether she wants to see me again. So how can I try and further this without making it awkward if she doesn't want to see me again? I'm probably like to see her around some time considering I'm friends with a lot of hers so I don't want to make it awkward for then.
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First, erdicate any thoughts of awkwardness. Women are highly intuitive. If you're uncomfortable around us, then this will make us very uneasy. She may already be interested in you. Alcohol is 'courage juice.'
She may fear that YOU may be the one to judge her. She may be under the impression tha you might assume that she gets 'wasted' and randomly sleeps with men every time. The truth: She may have lusted after YOU and ONLY YOU for a long time, and alcohol may have just given her the courage to do so!
If you're a little intimidated to approach the subject. Try this. Write her a letter saying this:
"I really, really like you. Things moved pretty quickly that night between us. I think you're very beautiful and I would love to spend some time getting to know you better...SOBER (lol)"
Be sure to include the happy icon after LOL.
Don't add anything else sentimental to this letter. You want to appear interested, not appear like a stalker. Good Luck!