Lately, I just bought one like this for wearing when I'm at home, lounging around, cause it's cozy. (I am wearing shirt over it too). Now I am second-guessing myself and should have opted for a cozy but cuter one.
That's okay you're planning to wear it just when you're at home. It won't turn guys off. I think I should get some of those bras for myself. They seem so comfortable :) I'll wear it whenever I go to bed because apparently it's unhealthy to sleep with a tight bra.