Okay, this is a tough one for me... I am 38, happily married, and I love my job. I am a manager in my company, but not one of the big-wigs. My boss (who is a big wig) recently hired a STUNNING 25 year old admin, and I really am having difficulty keeping my eyes off of her... She's sharp as a tack, dresses very nicely in business skirts, blouses, etc. My problem is she is INCREDIBLY sexy~ For instance, I hate it when I have to stand close to her in the elevator, or when we have to pass each other in the hall, because I find it hard for me to hide my thoughts.
So, my question is, Ladies, how much is okay? I don't want to be rude, but it's hard for a man in my position NOT to notice a woman as beautiful as this...Am I just experiencing my mid-life crisis? LOL
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Let's face it. Any time a younger, hot member of the opposite sex gives us a glance, it's a compliment. It makes you feel good and builds your self esteem. However, a word of advice, be very careful. Along with that younger look comes a younger mentality. Flirting is so dangerous. It will be fascinating and almost addictive, but usually it ends up going too far and then gets boring or too complicated. Then how do you handle being around someone that you'd like nothing more but to forget? I'm speaking from experience. The one at home knows all your crap and has made a decision to stay with you anyway. Put a little romance back into that relationship and you won't even notice "what's her name"...0