Wow you just described the perfect guy in my book.
Do not worry about pale skin, it is very sexy especially if you have dark brown hair or black and those colored eyes. And do not go to a tanning booth its dangerous. Be happy with the way you look it sounds sexy to me.
Tanning is stupid. It really disgusts me looking at white women like in their 30s or 40s, with orange skin. You see that a lot around here. Natural skin tones are already beautiful the way they are. well that's just my personal opinion. But go ahead get skin cancer, whatever makes you happy.
I don't know if girls are attracted to pale guys, that I won't be able to answer, but
I have to say that I am attracted to pale girls, I think there look amazing, the more pale they are, the better they look, for me.