1. sometimes, I just want to wear women clothes. does that make me gay?
I'd like to dress like a girl sometimes to bring in some fashion sense in men (myself at least, e. g. above knee capri, knee-length jeans, cuffed jeans and even short shorts. I hate board shorts, cargo shorts and trunk. They look dumb and silly), have double standards and also try out what else a man can do. I am no crazy for attraction and attention, just simply dressing for comfort, tryout (some sort of dare-and-do) and maybe for a better look. I am currently not looking to wear dress or skirt. Adding to that, I may have to go through therapy to do away with all beards and hairs on my body, grow long hair for headband and intake voice therapy for high, chick tone. Then, way to go for nice-looking sleeveless tops, dresses, spandex and athletic shorts. Guy clothes these days don't look much athletic. I am not athletic. I look more like a Korean/Japanese guy, so fitting in girl clothes is not difficult. I don't fantasize about this.
I don't want HRT or sex change. I just want to be that way sometimes and some other time (most likely), I will dress like a man, manly esp. for dating out with girls.. I love girls and want penetrative sex normally with a girl like all other guys. However, I want to try go on a few dates as a girl to see how it is to be a passive role in dating but I will definitely deny intimate relationships with any guy b'cuz it is just so wrong in the nature. Even with me dressing that girly way sometimes, men can find me attractive but I won't buy into any attraction to other males. I just simply don't like men.
2. I excel in my industry as an engineer and in other fields like art (graphic design, drawing) and music (piano). I do some sport (lifting, gym, soccer, workout, hiking, chess,...). I might want to take martial art, aerobic classes as well. Can I do both of those? I know it sounds goofy but there can be men who do boxing and ballerina, right?
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Most men who cross dress are straight men who hide it. My boyfriend loves to wear my clothes when nobody can see but me. He feels sexy in them. I wet his boxers. I am what you call the one who wears the pants in the relationship lol. He is Bisexual, but considers himself 80% into woman an 20% into men.3