So I was talking to an old friend of mine who I've known since I was 4. Anyway we were talking about life and society et cetra and dating came up.
Basically he let out how he's been feeling lately about my choice of style among other things, and that my look would attract the wrong type/limited few.
Long story short he wants the best for me and he wants me to shave off my facial hair, because he has kids & a fiancee and he wants me to find a good girl... he also wants me to go on wild sexcapades so he can live vicariously through me (lol which I can't object to but I don't think I have the bravado for that) but he does want me to meet someone worthwhile.
Anyway since this is based on first impressions/face value why not ask some strangers that don't know me personally.
So here's a goofy pic of me from 3 years ago when I tried being clean cut for like a month
And here's a pic of me today lol equally terrible but whatever (had to do the same dorky pose for the compare and contrast)
So what's your opinion?
What looks better?
What would you suggest instead?
- Short and tame (except styled better) like pic 124% (5)12% (1)21% (6)Vote
- Long and wild (maybe altered a bit) like pic 219% (4)25% (2)21% (6)Vote
- Something different or inbetween (elaborate in the comments - like keep the beard/lose the hair or shave the beard/keep the hair...& so on)48% (10)50% (4)48% (14)Vote
- Either-or looks okay do whatever I want9% (2)13% (1)10% (3)Vote
The facial hair is within my control, because I can cut/trim it whenever I want, I'll have to try some different mustache waxes to see if I can make it look more proper. Also I get bored and let it get bigger and then I trim it down, sometimes way down.
As for the hair... *sigh* it's a process, I still haven't figured it out yet or what I should do.
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Hmmm, I think there are several kinds of hairstyles you could go for.
I really like this style. Usually I like guys with short hair and full beard.
But if you wanna keep your long hair you could try tying it up like this. But your hair might be too short, I don't know.
OR you could go for a much shorter beard and this style of hair but you'd have to style it every day.