This really sweet pretty girl always tries to look her best when she knows she'll be around me. She'll act all happy & comfortable one second, then nervous, anxious, and scared the next. Last Thursday, I told her she looks beautiful when she dresses up but at the same time she doesn't have to dress up to impress me or seek my approval. I told her that who she actually is by being nice and her attitude means more to me than how she tries to look. The very next day she dresses up again, and was acting nervous, anxious, and sad. Why does she think she has to look her best when ever she's around me, does she expect something from it?
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I can relate to this girl! I never leave the house unless I'm "dressed" and I will surely not go around a crush if not. I think it was really sweet of you that you let her know that you like her for who she is. But maybe this is just her style? Perhaps she likes to keep a more polished look. All I can say is compliment her on how nice she looks because she is obviously working hard to look good for you. And I think the anxiety is because she may have took what you said wrong. She may feel as if you don't like her 'look' and was trying to break it to her nicely. Try explaining it again in a better way, "You always look nice, I hope you know you don't have to impress me.". But overall, just let her dress the way she wants. Hope that helps.3