I wouldn't so much refuse to date a girl with a short haircut, as I would just not notice one. Girls with short, ugly haircuts like that don't really ping my radar... I notice them in the same way I notice dudes or lamps.
I don't see why not. I haven't been around on this earth long enough to know what people are going to be like based on their haircut, while some adults have. Ah well. All things will become clear in time, they say.
This question has been up several times before. But I will answer as always. There are women who look great in the pixie cut and there are women who look terrible in the pixie cut. It all depends on how long their skull is. A short skull usually works well with the pixie cut. A long skull doesn't.
I hate the pixie cut. The beauty of a woman's hair is far too important to me to over look it by dating a woman that decided to cut most of her hair off. I am not exaggerating when I say that I would rather date an obese woman with long hair, over a physically fit woman with a pixie cut. I am fairly willing to overlook just about any other physical trait, but I am not attracted to women with pixie cuts at all. There is no point in being in a relationship with someone I am not attracted to.