How do I start caring more about my appearance? Now, I pretty much "just get by" looking very blah $ & plain, but not sloppy.
I don't know how to build motivation to be as hot as possible. I know that looks are the main things guys care about, but it depresses me to know how it overshadows everything else, so I don't bother with the extra effort and just stay single.
It would really help to know what you look like. What many women call "plain" I call girl-next-door natural and I (and a lot of other men) think that look is very hot. You may be selling yourself short.
Besides, women are much more attendant to style than men, who are far more likely to notice your shape. Draping the latest Paris fashions over a drooping, lumpy figure will do little good.
The best thing you can do is stay in shape or get there if you are not already. No one expects you to look like Scarlett Johansson (especially after 30 and kids), just take care of yourself and you will be noticeable in a T-shirt and jeans.
Drink plenty of water and eat healthy. Your skin will improve so much and you will glow if you put the correct things inside yourself. Exercise as well. Wash your face and take care of your skin. Buy figure flattering clothes. If you want to do your makeup, learn how to do it.
I never care about how i look but guys are still hitting on me even if i dont want then to. Help:(