i have a big butt and it is toned so giirl you can have both! and I am in the navy so I work with almost all guys in my job and they all say girls with a toned "ass" is nice. but I mean embrace the behind you got
(I don't date/judge girls based on just their butts, BUT since this is about butts, I'll be descriptive.)
I like round butts, no flat tires for me. Well... That will change when I'm older.
By round I mean like there's the back and then the butt is just a entirely new line and then goes around to the leg and is a new line. Obviously this isn't common so I don't go for girls that only have this, but when I do see a girl with this I just drop my jaw and think "I waaaaant D="